I don't think it's anybody's business but your own. Is privacy too much to ask when it's guaranteed? I can overlook a lesson by way of overstepping of bounds if you have plans of more than making up for it, but if that includes pretending 5 different people are God and several others see themselves as Jesus, I'm out on that insecure boys club. Patron is as I as I could imagine on earth or in the webs.